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69 Dom/Sub
Sayings
After a long day of tackling dishes, duties, and endless to-do lists, sometimes the mood for pleasure doesn’t just magically appear—you’ve got to set the scene. And trust me, diving into a list of powerful Dom/Sub sayings is just the ticket to get things sizzling.
In the world of BDSM, the right words can turn up the heat like nothing else. Dom/Sub sayings—whether it’s BDSM phrases or commands—aren’t just about setting the mood; they’re about deepening your connection, cranking up the intensity, and adding that electrifying spark to your play.
So, get ready to explore, experiment, and enjoy every tantalizing moment!
Here’s what we’re diving into:
Dominant dirty talk - things to say to a submissive
Here are a few to kick things off:
- "Kneel" - When to Use It: Start your scene off right by commanding your Sub to kneel before you. It sets the tone and instantly asserts your dominance.
- "Good Girl/Boy" - When to Use It: Drop this line when your Sub nails a command or goes the extra mile. It's a classic way to build trust and keep that submissive vibe going strong.
- "Who do you belong to?"
When to Use It: Whisper this in those intimate moments to remind your Sub exactly where they stand, deepening their sense of submission. - "Beg for it" - When to Use It: Turn up the heat by making your Sub plead for their reward. It cranks up the intensity and makes the payoff even sweeter.
- "Do you want to please me?" - When to Use It: Ask this to make your Sub reflect on their role and reaffirm their dedication to making you happy.
- "Show me your submission" - When to Use It: During a ritual or when you want your Sub to prove their dedication, this phrase sets the stage.
On the go
- "You may speak" - When to Use It: After giving a command, let your Sub know when they can respond. It keeps them firmly in their submissive role.
- "Count your spanks" - When to Use It: During impact play, have your Sub count each spank out loud. It keeps them mentally engaged and deepens their submission.
- "Look at me" - When to Use It: Whether during pleasure or punishment, this command reinforces control and connection. Eye contact says it all.
- "You’re mine" - When to Use It: Remind your Sub who’s in charge during those intimate moments. It’s all about reinforcing the power dynamic.
- "You'll take what I give you" - When to Use It: Whether it’s pleasure or punishment, make it clear that their experience is entirely in your hands.
- "Thank me" - When to Use It: After a scene or when you’ve given a reward, prompt your Sub to express their gratitude. It’s a simple way to keep the power dynamic front and center.
- "Take it for me" - When to Use It: Drop this line during a challenging scene. It’ll push your Sub to endure, knowing it’s all for you.
- "Hold still" - When to Use It: Command your Sub to stay perfectly still during an intense moment, like sensory play, to amp up the experience.
- "I control your pleasure"
When to Use It: Use this line during orgasm control or edging to remind your Sub that their pleasure is entirely at your discretion. - "Worship me" - When to Use It: Perfect for scenes centered on body or foot worship, this phrase will have your Sub eager to please.
- "Don’t speak unless spoken to" - When to Use It: Maintain control of the conversation and the scene, keeping your Sub in a mindset of obedience.
- "Serve me" - When to Use It: Kick off service-oriented tasks or a scene where your Sub is performing just for you.
- "I own you" - When to Use It: Remind your Sub of their place in the dynamic during an intimate moment.
- "Let go" - When to Use It: Use this at the peak of a scene to help your Sub fully embrace the pleasure or pain they’re experiencing.
- "Obey me" - When to Use It: Reinforce your authority during tasks or commands where obedience is key.
- "Beg for forgiveness" - When to Use It: After a misstep, have your Sub ask for forgiveness, deepening their submission and your control.
- "Eyes on me" - When to Use It: Keep your Sub’s focus entirely on you during those intense moments.
- "Do you trust me?" - When to Use It: Ask this during a vulnerable moment to remind your Sub of the trust that underpins your relationship.
- "Take your punishment" - When to Use It: Before administering discipline, remind your Sub they must accept their punishment.
- "Only speak when spoken to" - When to Use It: Control when your Sub can talk, deepening their submission.
To offer some feedback:
- "You’re doing so well"
When to Use It: A little encouragement during a scene can go a long way in deepening your bond. - "You’ve pleased me"
When to Use It: After a scene or task, let your Sub know they’ve met or exceeded your expectations.
Femdom messages – BDSM text to build anticipation
- Tonight, you are not allowed to cum until I say so.
- I will make your dick hard in public places so you can punish me later.
- You’ve been a naughty boy, haven’t you? Prepare to be punished. 🖤
- You exist to please me. Tell me how you’ll please your Mistress tonight with your cock and lips. 🌹
- You’re at my mercy tonight. I’ll decide when and how you receive pleasure. 💋
- I’m going to tie you up and tease you until you can’t take it anymore.
- I’m in the mood to dominate you tonight. Be ready to serve your Mistress.
- You’re going to please your Mistress exactly how I desire, your arousal is my plaything.
- I want to see your dick hard and desperate tonight, all at my command.
- Your cock is mine to command tonight. It will only play when I say it can.
- Your dick will only receive pleasure tonight when your lips please my pussy just right.
- I’m craving the feeling of your dick controlling my pussy.
- I have plans to explore every inch of my body while you enjoy the view before you dive in… 🌀
- I’m yearning for your penis to discipline my pussy.
- I’m playing with myself, imagining it’s you satisfying my every desire… 🎶
- I’m so wet, imagining it’s your fingers playing with me…
How do I reply to Dom?
When you're replying to your Dom, your words can really set the stage, strengthen your bond, and keep that power dynamic sizzling. Here are 25 examples to help you respond in a way that's respectful, submissive, and perfectly in sync with the unique connection you share.
- Keep It Real: Honesty is the best policy, especially when something feels off. Don’t shy away from speaking up if you’re uncomfortable—your Dom will appreciate the truth.
- Respect the Rules: Titles like Sir, Ma’am, or whatever your Dom prefers, aren’t just for show—they keep the power dynamic sizzling. Stick to them to keep the energy just right.
- Say Thanks, Always: Show some love for the effort your Dom puts into your dynamic. A little gratitude goes a long way in making the connection even stronger.
- Ask Away: Got questions? Don’t hesitate to ask! Clear communication is key to making sure you’re hitting all the right notes in your role.
- Stay Curious: Keep an open mind and be ready to learn. Embrace your Dom’s feedback as a chance to grow and deepen your connection.
- "Yes, Sir/Ma'am."
The classic go-to. It’s short, sweet, and says, "I’m all yours." - "As you wish."
Total compliance? You’ve got it. This one shows you’re all in, ready to follow their lead. - "I belong to you." A powerful affirmation that you’re theirs, body and soul.
- "I’m here to serve you."
A gentle reminder that making them happy is your top priority. - "How may I please you?"
An open invitation for them to tell you exactly what they want. - "Thank you for guiding me."
A little gratitude goes a long way. Let them know you appreciate their leadership. - "I trust you completely."
This one’s a biggie. Trust is the bedrock of your dynamic, and this reinforces it. - "Your wish is my command."
Sounds formal, but it packs a punch. You’re here to make their wishes come true. - "I am yours to command."
No holding back—this is all about emphasizing that they’re in charge. - "I hope I can please you."
Showing a bit of vulnerability with a touch of eagerness to make them proud. - "I’m ready to obey."
Short, direct, and lets them know you’re fully prepared to follow their lead. - "Whatever pleases you, pleases me."
Your desires? Perfectly aligned with theirs. That’s submission in sync. - "I’m here for your pleasure."
Straight to the point—your goal is their satisfaction. - "I’ll do my best to make you proud."
Commitment? Check. You’re all in to make sure they feel proud. - "I’m honored to serve you."
Add a dash of reverence. It’s all about showing how much their dominance means to you.
16. "I’m eager to learn and grow under your guidance."
Learning curve? You’re ready for it. Show your willingness to evolve together.
17. "I submit to your will."
A powerful way to say, "I’m all yours—no questions asked."
18. "Please tell me how I can improve."
You’re all about growing together, so ask for that feedback!
19. "I’m grateful for your dominance."
Appreciation, pure and simple. Thank them for leading the way.
20."Your satisfaction is my priority."
It’s all about them, and you’re here to make sure they know it.
21. "I’m ready for whatever you decide."
Whether it’s a surprise or a planned scene, you’re down for it all.
22. "Your happiness is my reward."
Their joy is your payoff, and you wouldn’t have it any other way.
23."I will follow your lead."
You’re in this together, but they’re steering the ship.
24."Please allow me to serve you."
A polite request that shows you’re eager to fulfill your role.
25."I live to please you."
Pure dedication—this one’s all about showing just how much you’re into them.
And for a playful humor finish:
- "Please allow me to serve you."
"At your service—let’s do this with style, and maybe just a hint of sass." - "I live to please you."
"Pleasing you is my jam—now, let’s rock this!" - "I belong to you."
"Yours truly—just don’t forget to feed me!"
