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55 Dirty Talk Examples and Phrases for Foreplay, Sex, and Sexy Texts
Talking dirty can be like adding a dash of hot sauce to your relationship—spicy, exciting, and best when you don’t accidentally spill the bottle all at once. If done right, it’s a fun way to strengthen your connection, discover new depths in your relationship, and maybe even leave your partner blushing (in the best way). But remember, dirty talk isn’t about tossing out random spicy lines; it’s an art that involves timing, creativity, and knowing when to save the jokes for later.
The (Playfully) Dirty Details on Dirty Talk
Dirty Talk Do’s
✅ Get the Thumbs Up: Consent is the magic word. Before you turn up the heat, make sure your partner is cool with it—because nobody likes unsolicited spice.
✅ Start Small: Think of dirty talk as dipping your toe into a hot tub, not cannonballing in. A little hint of suggestiveness goes a long way.
✅ Own It: Confidence is sexy. Even if you’re shaking like a leaf inside, pretend you’re James Bond with a naughty secret. (Your partner doesn’t need to know you practiced in the mirror.)
✅ Make It Personal: Compliment their quirks, focus on shared fantasies, or drop a callback to that time the couch almost didn’t survive.
✅ Keep It Real: No need for over-the-top theatrics. If it feels like you're auditioning for a soap opera,
maybe scale it back. Authenticity is hotter than Shakespearean-level monologues.
Dirty Talk Don’ts
❌ Push Boundaries: “Surprise!” is better suited for birthday parties than trying out a wild, unvetted fantasy mid-pillow talk.
❌ Avoid Being a Script Thief: Dirty talk isn’t about reciting lines from those movies. Keep it original, or at least don’t sound like you’re auditioning for "Most Cliché Dialogue Ever."
❌ Force Nothing: If it feels awkward, stop. No need to push through like it’s an episode of Survivor.
❌ Skip It During Chaos: Attempting dirty talk when your partner is stressed is like trying to serenade someone during a fire drill. Read the room.
When NOT to Get Flirty with Your Words
🛑 Mid-Argument: Nothing kills the mood faster than trying to say something sultry while they’re debating your laundry-folding technique.
🛑 During Emotional Confessions: If your partner is baring their soul, don’t respond with “Be my naughty servant, please your mistress.”
🛑 Tender, Non-Spicy Moments: When it’s all soft lights and sweet kisses, let the vibe stay dreamy. Save the naughty words for later.
When Talking Dirty Can Ignite a Spark
🔥 Date Night Delight:
Candlelit dinner, some wine, and a whispered or a little message sent, “I can’t stop thinking about later...” Boom! Instant fireworks. Some more ideas
for naughty messages:
- You make me smile and also super horny.
- Do you know how much I want you?
- I can’t wait to feel you inside me… the anticipation is driving me wild!
- My lips are craving yours… and I'm not just talking about the ones on my face
🔥 Fantasy Hour: Sharing those “what ifs” in your relationship? Talking through them is like building the plotline for your very own rom-com (or rom-hot).
🔥 Passionate Peaks: When things are already steamy, adding some tantalizing words can be the cherry on top—or maybe the whipped cream.
Let’s move on to examples.
Kinky Sexting examples:
- I’m yearning to be your cowgirl, riding you into ecstasy
- You’re at my mercy tonight. I’ll decide when and how you receive pleasure.
- I’m so wet, imagining it’s your fingers playing with me…
- You must be tired after everything we did in my dream last night.
- I’m imagining your hands all over me… it’s making me shiver.
- I wanna feel you. Taste you. Touch you.
- I can barely concentrate; I keep thinking about you grabbing me and taking me
- I am not wearing any panties
- I need your oral skills… can you make me lose control? 👅🍑🤯
- Tonight, I want to feel your mouth on me while I pleasure you… in a 69.
- Tonight, I want to be your bound and blindfolded plaything, at the mercy of your desires…
- I’m going to tie you up and tease you until you can’t take it anymore.
- I’m playing with myself, imagining it’s you satisfying my every desire…
- I’m going to make your cock feel incredible, taking it deep and making it pulsate with pleasure…
Dirty talk examples and phrases
- L1: romantic
- L2: naughty
- L3: kinky
Foreplay lines:
L1: I want you to undress me.
L1: I love how you're kissing my neck.
L2: I want to feel your breath on my neck, stomach, between my legs… it’s driving me wild.
L2: Feeling your cock get hard is amazing. / Feeling you get wet is amazing.
L3: I'll want to feel your tongue between my legs / on my dick.
L3: I’m dressed in leather and lace… ready to be your mistress tonight
Oral sex lines:
L1: Your tongue/mouth is driving me wild… keep going
L1: You’re making me so wet.
L2: I love the way you use your tongue… don’t stop
L2: Yes… taste my desire, make me lose control.
L3: Lick it, show me what you've got.
L3: Worship me, savor every part of me
L3: Tonight is all about me, so get down on your knees and put that tongue/mouth of yours to work
Cowgirl position lines:
L1: Let me see your pleasure, watch me as I ride.
L1: Squeeze my hips, feel how I take you deeper
L2: I love moving on your hard cock.
L2: Stay still and hard, let me ride you into ecstasy
L3: Feel how I own every part of you and control your pleasure, keep submitting.
L3: Beg for more, show me your submission.
Missionary position lines
L1: I adore being yours.
L1: Tease me with your movements, make me crave more.
L2: Fuck me deeper, let me feel every inch of you
L2: Beg for more, show me your need.
L3: Massage my clit, make me cum.
L3: Make me yours, claim every part of me
Mutual masturbation erotic talk:
L1: I'm fantasizing about you right now
L1: Tell me your fantasies, let your words enhance my pleasure
L2: My pussy is so wet, I'll want you to join me soon
L2: Guide my hands to your favorite spots of me.
L3: I’m touching myself, yearning to be your naughty girl, let you fuck me any way you desire.
Orgasm dirty speak out phrases
L1: Oh… you’re making me come, don’t stop
L1: I am enjoying you sooo much.
L2: That was intense… you really know how to make me lose control.
L2: Mmm… you made me come so hard, you naughty thing
L3: Good servant… you’ve made your mistress shiver with pleasure, you’ve earned my favor.
L3: Good boy… you served your mistress well, making me come like that.
XL and XXL BDSM box
No more OMG moments with the toddler walking out with mommy’s toy. ;)
Remember, dirty talk is like seasoning your favorite dish. Too little, and it’s bland. Too much, and suddenly you’ve got a mess on your hands (and maybe an accidental choking-on-laughter moment). Balance is everything—and hey, if it makes both of you laugh along the way, that’s a win too. Just don’t let your dirty talk end with, “Wait, did I say that out loud?” 😳
