From Beginner to Experienced Sub
42 Submissive Tasks
In this guide, the 44 submissive tasks are divided into four categories:
- Beginner-Friendly Submissive Tasks
- Naughty Submissive Tasks a Dom May Give to His Femsub
- BJ Submissive Tasks
- BDSM Submissive Tasks for Experienced D/s Couples
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- Submissive Roleplay Scenarios and Commands
An important note before we dive into submissive tasks in the bedroom.
Embracing your submissive nature requires a foundation of absolute trust with your partner. This journey into vulnerability, while intensely fulfilling, carries both emotional and physical risks. You need the unwavering certainty that your Dominant prioritizes your well-being above all else. For this reason, exploring these dynamics is safest within a relationship where this trust is already deeply established, rather than venturing into such intense territory with someone you don't know well. It is wise to be discerning and perhaps avoid engaging in such power-exchange scenarios in casual, one-night stands.
Safeword
Before exploring submissive tasks, agree on a safeword or safe signal with your partner. A safeword is a word that immediately pauses or stops the activity if someone feels uncomfortable.
If speaking isn't possible, a safe signal—such as tapping your partner or dropping an object—can serve the same purpose.
A safeword is not a sign of failure. It's a sign of trust and helps ensure that exploration remains safe, consensual, and enjoyable for both partners.
Beginner-friendly submissive tasks
- The Uniform of Service: You will select a simple, specific outfit—a classic French maid's uniform, a simple black dress, or perhaps just a silk apron worn over your naked body. This will be your "service uniform," and you will wear it whenever performing household duties for me, a constant visual reminder of your role.
- The Command Collar: You will wear a collar, not necessarily a heavy one, but a delicate, beautiful one—a simple leather band, a silver choker, or even a ribbon. You will not remove it, in or out of the house. It is a silent, elegant symbol of your submission and my ownership that rests against your skin at all times.
- The Orgasm Control: You will be allowed to orgasm only when given explicit permission. This can be a daily task, where you must ask for permission, or a longer-term denial to build anticipation and desire.
- The Seductive Lingerie: Every evening, you will change into a set of lingerie that I have chosen for you. You will model it for me before we go to bed, presenting your body for my inspection and approval. This daily ritual reinforces your role as an object of my desire.
- The Inspection Ritual: At a designated time each day, you will present yourself naked for inspection. You will stand still while your Dominant examines your body, perhaps tracing their fingers over your skin, ensuring you are clean and ready for them.
- The Edging Practice: You will be required to bring yourself to the brink of orgasm multiple times a day without being allowed to climax. This teaches you control and keeps you in a constant state of arousal.
- The Name Marking: You will write your Dominant's name on your body, perhaps on your breast or thigh, with a marker or lipstick. You will wear it all day, a secret reminder of your ownership.
- The Toy Training: You will be required to practice with a dildo or vibrator for a set amount of time each day. Your Dominant may even require you to send a video as proof of your practice.
- The Public Signal: Your Dominant will give you a secret signal in public. When you see it, you will know to find a private place, like a restroom, and remove your underwear, which you will then give to them.
- The No-Underwear Rule: You will be forbidden from wearing underwear when you go out together. The constant secret awareness of your exposure will keep you in a submissive headspace.
- The Symbolic Restraint: You will wear a symbolic piece of bondage gear under your clothes when we go out. This could be a pair of discreet wrist cuffs hidden under your sleeves, or a thin rope harness tied around your torso beneath your blouse. It is a secret that binds you to me, even in a crowd.
- The Naked Apron: You will perform your kitchen duties wearing only an apron. The stark contrast between the domestic, servile symbol of the apron and your complete nakedness elsewhere is a powerful visual of your dual role as both homemaker and my sexual property.
- The Guided Offering: You will stand naked in the center of the room, and I will place the blindfold over your eyes. You will then hold your hands behind your back. I will guide you with only my touch—a hand on your elbow, a pressure on your shoulder—into the position I desire. You will trust my lead completely, your body a pliant instrument for my will.
- The Orgasm Anticipation: Your sight will be taken, and your hands will be bound. I will bring you to the edge of orgasm with my hands or a toy, and then I will stop. You will not know when I will touch you again. The anticipation, the waiting in darkness, will become a form of exquisite torment, heightening every eventual sensation until you are begging for release.
- The Body Worship: You will be blindfolded, and I will command you to worship my body. You will use only your mouth and hands to explore me, to find my cock, to kiss and lick my skin. Without sight, every discovery is a surprise, every texture a new lesson in my anatomy. Your devotion is guided by touch and taste alone.
- The Waking Reminder: In the morning, before you are fully awake, I will gently pull your hair, not enough to cause pain, but just enough to rouse you. You will wake up with the sensation of my control already upon you, your very first thought of the day being of my ownership and your submission to me.
- Dirty Talk: You will look at yourself in the full-length mirror. You will point out your 'fuckholes'—your mouth, your pussy, your ass—and you will describe what they are for. You will say, 'This mouth is for sucking Sir's cock,' 'This pussy is for Sir's pleasure,' and 'This ass is for Sir to claim and fill.'
Naughty Submissive Tasks a Dom May Give to His Femsub
- The Offering Position: You will kneel at the foot of the bed. I will bind your wrists together behind your back. You will then present yourself to me, back arched, head held high. You will remain perfectly still in this vulnerable, offering position until I am ready to use you.
- The Remote-controlled Vibrator: You will wear a remote-controlled vibrator to dinner with my friends. I will hold the remote, and I will tease you throughout the meal, turning it on and off at my whim. You will have to maintain your composure, engaging in polite conversation while your body is being wracked with secret pleasure. Your self-control is a gift to me.
- Wake Me Up With Your Mouth: You will wake me up with your mouth on my cock. Not a gentle, teasing wake-up call, but a deep, wet, determined effort to pull me from my sleep with the undeniable pleasure of your tongue. You will not stop until I am fully awake, hard, and grabbing your hair to set the pace myself. Your day begins by serving my pleasure.
- The Taste of Your Desperation: You will bring yourself to the brink of orgasm with your fingers, but you will not be allowed to come. You will stop right on the edge, and then you will immediately come to me and take my cock in your mouth. I want to taste your desperation on your tongue. You will service me with a needy, hungry desperation, and only after I have come will you be allowed to seek your own release.
- The Forced Orgasm: I will bind your wrists to the headboard, spreading your legs wide. I will then use a vibrator on your clit, forcing you to orgasm again and again. You will be allowed to beg, to scream, to struggle, but I will not stop until I am satisfied that you have learned your lesson.
- The Anal Training Plug: You will wear a butt plug for a designated amount of time each day, perhaps while you are cooking or cleaning. You will slowly increase the size over time, training your body to be ready for my use. The feeling of fullness will be a constant, physical reminder of your purpose.
- The Orgasm Control: You will be on your hands and knees as I take you from behind. My hand will be fisted in your hair, not pulling, just resting. When I feel you begin to climax, I will tighten my grip. The pull will be your signal: you have permission to come. You will learn to associate the sharp, possessive sting on your scalp with the ultimate release.
- The Anal Preparation Ritual: Before I take your ass, you will prepare yourself for me. You will kneel on the bed, facing away, and present yourself. You will then use your fingers to lubricate and stretch yourself, opening yourself up for my cock. You will continue until I tell you to stop, your preparation a part of the service itself.
- The "Ass Up" Position: When you hear me say the phrase, "Ass up," you will immediately stop what you are doing, get on all fours on the nearest available surface, and lower your head to the ground, keeping your ass high in the air. This is your ready position for anal use, a position you will hold until I am ready to take you.
- The Anal Orgasm Challenge: I will fuck your ass while you use a vibrator on your clit. Your task is to achieve an orgasm from the anal penetration alone. Then, you will not be allowed to touch your clit. You must learn to find your pleasure solely from the way I fill and use you from behind.
- The Mirror's View: I will take you from behind while you are on all fours in front of a full-length mirror. I will command you to keep your eyes open, to watch my cock disappear into your ass, to see the look of pure submission and pleasure on your own face as I claim you.
BJ Submissive tasks
- Only With Your Mouth: You will be allowed to touch me, but only with your mouth. You will take me deep, your lips a tight, wet seal around my shaft. You will use your tongue, a masterful instrument of pleasure, to explore every inch of my cock, from the sensitive head to the heavy base. You will be a perfect, obedient vessel, your only purpose to bring me to the brink of ecstasy with your mouth.
- Lie down, head at the foot of the bed, and tilt your head back over the edge. Open your mouth. You will keep your hands at your sides. You will remain perfectly still. I am going to fuck your throat, and you are going to take it. You will not gag. You will not resist. You will be a hole for my pleasure, nothing more. Your only job is to feel my cock fill you, and to swallow what I give you.
- You will kneel before me, and you will beg. You will beg for the privilege of sucking my cock. You will use your most desperate, pathetic tone, telling me how much you need it, how much you crave it. Only when I am satisfied with the sincerity of your begging will I allow you the honor of wrapping your lips around me.
- I will grab your hair, a firm, possessive grip, and I will set the pace. I will fuck your mouth, my thrusts deep and demanding. You will take it all, your eyes watering, your throat constricting around my cock. Your only desire to please me, to be used for my pleasure. You will not gag, you will not resist, you will simply submit.
- I'm going to lie down and relax. You will kneel between my legs and give me a long, slow, sensual blowjob. There is no rush. Your goal is to prolong the pleasure for as long as possible. You will use a variety of techniques, licking, sucking, and teasing, but you will not push me toward orgasm. This is an act of service and relaxation, and you will continue until I dismiss you.
- I want you to practice deep-throating on a dildo. You will do this for fifteen minutes every day. You will record a video of your final practice each week and send it to me. I will critique your technique and give you instructions on how to improve. You are training your throat to be a perfect sheath for my cock.
- You will kneel and I will tie your hands behind your back with a silk scarf. I will then place a blindfold over your eyes. You will not be able to see or touch me, only feel. You will use your mouth to find my cock, and you will service me using only your senses of touch and taste.
- You will hold a piece of ice in your mouth until it has almost completely melted. Then, you will take my cock into your now ice-cold mouth. The shock of the cold followed by the overwhelming heat of your tongue is a sensation I want to experience. You will continue this, alternating between an ice cube and your hot mouth, until I am satisfied with the exquisite torment you have provided.
BDSM submissive tasks
- The Spanking for Permission: When you wish to request something, a privilege or an orgasm, you will do so while bent over and presenting your ass to me. I will deliver a series of smacks. The number and intensity will determine my answer. You will learn to associate the pleasurable pain with the granting of your desires.
- The Orgasm Trigger: You will be on your back, my cock buried deep inside you. As I feel you begin to climax, I will deliver a sharp, stinging slap to your face. The shock of it will intensify your orgasm, sending a jolt of electricity through your entire body. You will learn to crave that shocking sting as the final key to your release.
- The Pleasure vs. Pain: While you are servicing me with your mouth, I will alternate between gently stroking your hair and slapping your face. You will not know which is coming next. The unpredictability will keep you in a state of heightened arousal, your body craving both the soft touch and the sharp sting.
- The Aftercare Reassurance: After an intense scene, when you are in my arms, coming down from the high, I will give your cheek one final, very gentle slap. It is not for pain, but a reconnection, a final, possessive touch in our shared afterglow, a silent way of saying, "You are mine, you did well, and you are safe with me."
- The Public Plug: We will go out for dinner. You will wear a butt plug the entire evening. During the meal, under the table, I will reach between your legs and press on the base of the plug, a silent, public reminder that you are mine to be filled, wherever we are.
Submissive Roleplay Scenarios and Commands
- The Naive Student: "You are a struggling student in my advanced literature class. You've come to my office to beg for a passing grade. Your performance has been abysmal, and your only hope is to convince me... creatively. Drop to your knees and show me how badly you want to pass."
- The Modern Penthouse: "You are my personal assistant, and you've just closed the biggest deal of your career," I say, my voice a smooth, confident purr. "It's time for your bonus. Get on all fours on the rug in front of the fireplace." You obey, your body a beautiful offering in the flickering light. I kneel behind you, my hands gripping your hips. "I'm going to fuck you doggy style," I say, my voice a low growl. "And you're going to take every inch of your reward."
- The Obedient Maid: "You've been dusting my study, but you've missed a spot. As punishment, you will get on your knees, unbutton my trousers, and use your mouth to polish my 'silver' until it shines. Do not stop until I tell you your service is satisfactory."
- The Aspiring Actress: "This is the final audition. The role is yours, but you need to convince the director you're willing to do *anything* for the part. Get on your knees. Show me how desperate you are. Show me the raw, unhinged passion this character requires."
- The Blackmailed CEO: "I have the emails. Your company, your reputation, everything is in my hands. Now, you're going to get on your knees under this desk and thank me for my silence. You will service me, and you will look grateful while you do it."
- A Costly Mistake - You are my personal assistant, and you've just made a costly mistake. I call you into my office, a sleek, glass-walled room overlooking the city. "Get on your knees," I command, my tone leaving no room for argument. You obey instantly. "Unzip me with your teeth." You fumble for a moment before succeeding, your hands clasped behind your back. I sit back in my high-backed leather chair, looking down at you. "Now, you're going to suck my cock under my desk. If you make a sound, if you distract me in any way, your employment will be terminated."
- Muse - You are my muse, the inspiration for my most scandalous paintings. Today's session is different. "I want to capture devotion," I say, my eyes intense. "Lie on the chaise lounge, your head hanging over the arm." You pose as I ask, a living embodiment of classical art. I stand over you, my already-hard cock in my hand. "Open your mouth. I'm going to fuck your throat while I sketch you. I want to capture the exact look of submission on your face as I use you for my pleasure. Do not close your eyes."
- The Corporate Boardroom - "It's late, and we are the only two left in this high-rise boardroom," I say, my voice hard as steel. I am the CEO, and you are my ambitious rival. "You want my job? You want my power?" I ask, a cruel smile playing on my lips. "Then you will have to take it." I sweep the papers off the large, mahogany table. "Lie on your back on my desk." You hesitate, but the desire for power is too strong. You obey. "Now," I say, unzipping my pants, "I'm going to fuck you on this table, and you will learn that true power is not about what you know, but about who you're willing to fuck."
- The Ski Chalet: We've just come in from the slopes, our bodies flushed with cold and adrenaline. You are my ski instructor, and I've been flirting with you all day. "You've been a very good teacher," I say, my voice low. "Now, it's my turn to teach you something." I push you down onto the thick, white rug in front of the roaring fireplace. "Lie on your back," I command. "Let your head hang back." I stand over you, my silhouette framed by the fire. "Open your mouth. I'm going to warm you up from the inside out."
- The Ski Chalet II: "We've just come in from the slopes, our bodies flushed with cold and adrenaline," I say, my voice a low, intimate murmur. I lead you to the thick, white rug in front of the roaring fire. "Lie on your side," I command. You comply, and I lie down behind you, my body spooning yours. I lift your leg, entering you from behind in a slow, sensual rhythm. "I'm going to fuck you like this," I whisper in your ear. "Slow and deep, while the snow falls outside and the fire warms our skin."
- The Space Station: We are in zero gravity on a research station. You are a junior scientist, and I am your superior officer. "We need to test the new 'Intimacy Protocols'," I say, my voice all business. "You're the test subject." I activate the magnetic boots on the floor, holding you in place as you float horizontally. "Open your mouth," I command, anchoring myself above you. "I'm going to fuck your throat in zero-g. You will learn to serve in any environment."
