Kinky Sex Positions: Dominant, Submissive & Hot Examples

2. Dominant Blowjob position

If the man likes to dominate, he will love this blowjob position. The woman lies down on her back. The man gets down on all fours above her, with his knees on either side of her head. His penis should be directly above the woman’s mouth. In addition to blowing, the woman can twist both hands along his shaft and brush her thumbs over and around the head.

• Beginner-friendly command: Lie down for me, beautiful. I want you to be comfortable as I move over you. I'll lower myself down, and I want you to open your warm, wet mouth for me. Take me in, nice and slow. Feel the weight of me on your tongue.
• Kinky dominant command: On your back, now. I'm going to kneel over your head, lower my cock to your lips and you are going to take it. Every. Last. Inch. Your only job is to keep that hot, wet mouth open for me and swallow what I give you.

Add dirty talk, like:

• Feeling your cock get hard is amazing.
• I want to feel your cock in my mouth.

4. Spreader Bar Play

• Beginner-friendly command: Lie back for me and let me secure the spreader bar. God, look at you… so beautiful and open, all for me. I can see how wet you already are, glistening and ready. I'm going to take my time, teasing you until you can't stand it, making you ache for me. And when you're begging for more, I'll slide inside you, filling you up completely.
• Kinky dominant command: On your back, legs spread wide by the bar. You're helpless and dripping for me. I'm going to tease this perfect, exposed pussy until you're begging, then I'm going to fuck you so deep. My favorite view.

The angle, with her legs held up and spread by the bar, allows him to go deep, each stroke a powerful claim.

Add dirty talk, like:

• “Does that feel good, baby? I can feel you getting so wet for me.”
• “This pretty little pussy is all mine to play with now.”
• “Tell me how badly you need this cock.”
• “I’ve been waiting to fill this pussy up.”
• “You look so fucking beautiful like this, all spread out and taking my dick.”
• "Let me use this perfect pussy to make myself feel good.

5. Surrender to Sensation

Put your headphones on and turn up the music, so that you can’t hear anything else. Your hands are bound to the bed and your eyes are blindfolded. Your partner performs oral sex, and afterwards — sexual positions.
Hint for him: work the supersensitive area around her clitoris in a figure-8 pattern with your tongue.
Hint for her: try to stimulate your guy’s perineum (located between his anus and balls) by gently massaging him while going down on him.

6. Missionary Pegging

Have him lie on his back with his legs raised, then guide your strap-on into him inch by inch, controlling every movement.

Lying on the back can provide a relaxed position while allowing him to enjoy visual intimacy, maintain eye contact, and appreciate her movements.

9. He Gets Bound to a Chair position

He sits in the sturdy wooden chair, watching as she expertly binds his ankles to its legs, rendering him immobile. Next, she pulls his arms behind him, the rope wrapping around his wrists and securing him to the chair’s back.
She kneels, stroking and then sucking his hard cock, enjoying his desperate groans as she reminds him who’s in control. After teasing him to the brink, she straddles his hips and sinks down, riding him with wild passion. She uses his bound body for her own pleasure.

Add dirty talk like:

• ‘Every inch of you belongs to me right now, and I’m going to take my time enjoying it.’
• ‘And this hard dick is at my mercy now, here to pleasure me.’

10. Ankle Cuffs

He takes her hands and ankles and cuffs them with ankle cuffs, securing her in a tight, helpless position. She lies on the bed, her knees pulled back and her wrists secured to the ankle cuffs, leaving her completely open and at his mercy. Her glistening pussy is an invitation he can’t refuse. He kneels between her legs, teasing her folds with his cock before finally pressing inside. The angle is incredible, allowing him to go deeper than ever before, hitting new spots with each thrust.

• Beginner-friendly dominant command: Lie back for me, sweetheart," I'll murmur, my voice a low, comforting rumble. "Let me secure these soft cuffs around your wrists and ankles, just like this." I'll gently guide your hands down to meet your feet, locking you into a position that's both secure and incredibly intimate. "Oh, look at you," I'll breathe, my gaze hot and appreciative. "So beautiful and open for me." I'll kneel between your legs, not entering you yet, but just letting the tip of my cock glide teasingly against your slick folds, watching you squirm. "I'm going to go so deep, baby. I want to feel all of you."
• Kinky dominant command: On your back, now. I'm going to cuff your wrists to your ankles, folding you up and leaving that pretty pussy completely exposed and helpless. I'll kneel between your legs, teasing my cock against your wetness until you're begging for it. Then I'm going to fuck you deeper than you've ever been taken.

11. Try Double Penetration - Butt Plug for Her

First, pour a generous amount of lube onto her asshole and the butt plug. Work it in slowly, gently easing the plug inside and allowing her time to get used to the stretch. Once she’s ready, he slides his hard cock into her pussy, moving deep and steady.

The plug makes her feel incredibly full, tightening around him and making the experience more intense for both of them. With enough lube and open communication, this small addition can make sex feel completely new and mind-blowing.

Dominant kinky command scenario:

I press the cold, slick plug against your tightest hole, my other hand resting possessively on the small of your back to keep you still. "Relax for me," I command, my voice a low growl. "Breathe out and let me in." I push it in slowly, millimeter by millimeter, watching your body swallow the plug, the sight making my own cock ache with need. "That's it, such a good girl taking what I give you."

Once the plug is settled deep inside you, I move to kneel between your spread legs. My cock is rock hard, and I drag the head through your soaking folds, coating myself in your wetness. "Look at you," I murmur, admiring the view of your glistening pussy and the flared base of the plug nestled in your ass. "So full. So ready." Without another word, I thrust forward, burying myself to the hilt in one smooth, deep stroke.

I set a deep, punishing rhythm, pulling almost all the way out before slamming back in, each thrust pushing the plug deeper inside you. "You feel incredible," I growl, my hands gripping your hips to hold you in place. "So fucking tight. This is what you were made for, wasn't it? To be filled and used by me." I reach around and find your clit, circling it with my thumb as I continue to pound into you, pushing you closer and closer to the edge. "Come for me," I command, my voice rough with desire. "Come all over my cock while you're plugged up for me."

13. Face-sitting (dominant and submissive position)

• His dominant command: I want your pussy in my face. You will kneel over me and I will eat you out. You will not move until I tell you to come.
• Her dominant command: Stay right where you are, I'm moving to straddle your face now, positioning my dripping pussy just above your lips. Your tongue will serve me, and you will not stop until I'm satisfied. Now, open up.